Mutual consideration
Etiquette
Thoughtful expectations for a comfortable, respectful experience.
I kindly ask that you please provide my gift within the first few minutes of our date. Tucked inside an envelope, card, or small gift bag is preferred if we are meeting in public. If we're meeting in private, I kindly ask that my gift be placed in a visible location before we settle in.
To reserve our time together, I require a 25% deposit, and 50% for Fly Me to You (FMTY) engagements. Deposits may be sent via Cash App or Bitcoin. Please inquire before sending any deposit. All deposits are nonrefundable.
Dates of three hours or more are intended to include a social element, such as drinks, small bites, an activity, or an outing. If you have genuine discretion concerns and would prefer to remain indoors for the duration of our date, I'm happy to accommodate. I simply ask that you add $500 to your donation.
I value my time just as much as I value yours. If you must cancel within 48 hours of our scheduled date, I kindly ask that you remit 50% of the total reservation fee. No-shows will be responsible for the full reservation fee.
If I am made to feel uncomfortable or unsafe at any point, I reserve the right to end our date immediately without refund.
If you are feeling unwell, please reach out to me via email to reschedule.
For both of our comfort, I kindly ask that you wash your hands prior to the beginning of our date.
I also kindly ask that you arrive freshly showered with good hygiene, or excuse yourself to shower before we settle in. It's a simple gesture of mutual respect that helps ensure we both enjoy our time together.
I appreciate you not taking photos, videos, or recordings of me without my express consent during our date.
Extended Time
Fly Me To You Etiquette
I appreciate you handling 100% of the travel costs related to our date.
Travel expenses covered by you include first- or business-class airfare, transportation, and four- or five-star hotel accommodations.
Please note that these are all non-negotiable and must be handled in advance to allow me to make proper arrangements.
Please allow 7-8 hours of uninterrupted sleep for all overnight dates.
I appreciate 2 hours of personal time each day so that I have time to exercise, shower, and get ready.
A general trip itinerary is much appreciated to help me prepare and pack appropriately.
Specific details can be handled via email.